Intense love, if not fruitful definitely turns to hate for a certain period of time. That certain period is not known by anyone. There are people who would like to block all the memories in the pursuit of moving on, moving on would mean purging yourself from all emotion regarding that person be it good or bad.
There are people who confront, shout, repent and feel it will help them in letting go of the negative emotions which will end up hurting them and their lives only.
There are people who feed on this hatred, no matter what; that anger and hatred drives them. Such people might end up over achieving on everything but they can never be truly happy because there goals were set on a negative mindframe. A diseased framework can never sustain a healthy structure on top of it. It will become diseased too.
I have personally been hated by many people and hated people in turn. What baffles me is the paradox of lack of emotion and intense emotion living together in our heart.
Its all in the mindset... love can turn into hate because of love.. because you love that person so much and if you betray them you're hurt and you want to hate them.. if you dont love a person and they betray you then you could care less but if you love them somehow you turn it into hate when its actually love that got you there.
Hate is an extreme emotion like love.... with regards to relationship one can hate as passionately as one has loved. But that hate is self destructive. With time people move on then why not try and help yourself, purging your hatred is all about accepting what is and moving on. Its not simple but there are two options 1) try to move on or 2) walk down a self destructive path.
Love doesn't turn into hate. It leaves and then hate comes in. But hate is not a good thing to have against someone.Now you can hate what a person is doing but not the person. We
must love everyone and show it everyday. You don't have to be in love with the person, just love them anyways from a distance if they hurt you. But always forgive no matter what. I don't care how long it takes to forgive, just forgive and let it go. Harboring ones issues will make you sick. So whoever you are mad at just get away from them.
Its all in the mindset;love can turn into hate because of love. Because you love that person so much and if you betray them you're hurt and you want to hate them, if you dont love a person and they betray you then you could care less but if you love them somehow you turn it into hate when its actually love that got you there.
And yes its reversible, you just need time to heal, you need to accept the facts, and learn to let go and learn not to hold on to that hate... trust me its a waste of energy.
well written!!!
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